Alls well, That ends well.

Alls well, That ends well - so true.. change is the only constant thing and no one is spared. A beginning definitely has a ending.An ending is a rebirth of a new beginning. Its easy to place these words one after the other in the order, but in reality accepting a end to anything is very tough for human beings.When someone dies, when someone leave us, when relationship breaks, when we lose our love, when we lose our friends... etc the list itself is endless. Losing money might not put an end to earn money again, but losing a person is like you never get to see them again. For ex: If we are ending a realationship on a bad note the feelings are never pleasant. Even though there might be beautiful moments that are attached to this relationship in the past, but it is very hard to distinct the hard feelings and good moments. As 'ending' is inevitable in most of the scenarios, why not end it in a nice way. This way at least we can cherish the good old memories.On the other hand, its not easy to end things on a good note. Unless there is that level of maturity from both the ends.If it is still good why to end it ;) The point that I want to make here is, end is certain, but why end it in a bitter way, why not end it in a good note? Its easier said than done. But if it could be implemented, than I feel nothing like it.
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Each step counts... !!!

Ahh.. I have been always writing only emotional and philosophical posts in this blog, but only when I get irritated or emotional or happy or sad, I feel like writing a blog. I see many blogs with recipes, general affairs etc... somehow I havent reached that level yet.

When I look back at my past, I see more mistakes than a wooow feeling. But that doesnt stop me feeling happy about some past instances and about some people in the past who may no longer be in touch with me. It might have been a bitter end, but as time passes along, the intensity of pain of all those big bad moments starts fading away and I feel that I have finally learnt to let go things and learn to live happily. I feel good, it makes me smile. I have learnt the hard way. It definetely may not go too well with the people around, but I cannot redo anything and I dont care anymore. I am glad I came through it and learned to live through it and finally feeling neutral about a lot of things. This post might not make too much sense to others but I know how I am feeling. I have progressed one step ahead in life, a step which is helping me to be happy, to be positive and to appreciate my life.

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